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Brazilian Portuguese reflexive pronouns: What are they and how to use them?

By: Fabiana Dametto Oliveira Thu Dec 12 2024
Brazilian portuguese
Pronouns, Verbs

The Brazilian Portuguese reflexive pronouns me, te, se, nos, and vos are used when the subject and the object are the same. For example:

subjectreflexive pronoun (object)

Ele vestiu-se rapidamente.

He dressed himself rapidly.

In Brazilian Portuguese, the most common reflexive pronoun is se, because it can be used with most subject pronouns, as an equivalent to “yourself,” “yourselves,” “himself,” “herself,” “itself,” or “themselves.”

In this post, we’ll review the various reflexive pronouns in Brazilian Portuguese, as well as when and how to use them.

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    Where to put a reflexive pronoun in a sentence?

    Officially, reflexive pronouns in Brazilian Portuguese follow the verb and are attached to it via a hyphen. For example:

    verbreflexive pronoun (object)

    Maria viu-se no espelho.

    Maria saw herself in the mirror.

    However, in informal Brazilian Portuguese (written and spoken) many speakers prefer to place this pronoun before the verb, without the hyphen, as in:

    verbreflexive pronoun (object)

    Maria se viu no espelho.

    Maria saw herself in the mirror.

    This makes placement of reflexive pronouns the same as the placement of unstressed direct and indirect object pronouns.

    Reflexive pronouns can also be used after prepositions, but in this case they have a special form, called a “stressed form.”

    prepositionstressed reflexive pronoun

    Carla está cheia de si.

    Carla is really confident.

    lit. Carla is full of herself.

    For complete details, check out this chart of the placement rules for Brazilian Portuguese reflexive pronouns.

    What are the reflexive pronouns in Brazilian Portuguese?

    The Brazilian Portuguese reflexive pronouns are me, te, se, nos, and vos . These are the equivalents of the English pronouns that end in “-self / -selves.”

    Reflexive Pronouns
    Translation(s)
    Subject Pronoun(s)
    me

    myself

    eu(I)
    te

    yourself

    tu(you)
    nos

    ourselves

    nós(we)
    vos

    yourselves

    vós(you)
    se

    yourself

    você(you sg.)

    himself, itself

    ele(he, it)

    herself, itself

    ela(she, it)

    yourselves

    vocês(you pl.)

    themselves

    eles, elas(they)
    Tip

    The reflexive pronouns nos(ourselves) and vos(yourselves) carry no written accent. This distinguishes them from the subject pronouns vós and nós.

    subject pronounreflexive pronoun

    Vós lembrais-vos das suas viagens aos EUA?

    Do you remember your travels to the USA?

    If you want to know more about subject pronouns take a look at our post!

    Now, let’s take a closer look at each of these reflexive pronouns, beginning with se.

    When to use the reflexive pronoun ‘se’?

    The reflexive pronoun se is used for most subject pronouns in Brazilian Portuguese: você, vocês, ele, eles, and ela, elas. Take a look at the examples below.

    • Você enganou-se.

      You were wrong.

      lit. You tricked yourself.

    • Guilherme prepara-se para o exame.

      Guilherme prepares himself for the exam.

    • As meninas se atiraram nos braços da mãe.

      The girls threw themselves into their mom’s arms.

      informal (see the discussion of this word order above)
    Tip

    Because, in Brazilian Portuguese, the verb conjugation is the same for você, ele, ela vs. vocês, eles, elas, these subject pronouns are only omitted if the subject is clear from context. Therefore, you will usually have a subject pronoun to help you distinguish between the different meanings of se.

    When to use the reflexive pronouns ‘me,’ ‘te,’ ‘nos,’ and ‘vos’?

    The reflexive pronouns me(myself), te(yourself), nos(ourselves), and vos(yourselves) are used for the subject pronouns eu(I), tu(you), nós(we), and vós(you). Let’s see some examples:

    • (Eu) chamo-me Paulo.
      (Eu) me chamo Paulo.

      I call myself Paulo.

    • (Tu) levantas-te muito cedo.
      (Tu) te levantas muito cedo.

      You get (yourself) up too early.

    Important

    There are two special rules to follow when the subject is “we”:

    • When the reflexive pronoun nos(ourselves) is placed after verbs ending with -s, the final -s must be dropped. Note that we do not remove the -s if the reflexive pronoun is used before the verb.

      Nós preocupamo-nos com você.
      Nós nos preocupamos com você.

      We care about you.

    • In informal Brazilian Portuguese, you can use the phrase a gente(we) to replace the subject pronoun nós(we). In this case, we use the reflexive pronoun se instead of nos.

      A gente se preocupa com você.
      A gente nos preocupa com você.

      We care about you.

    What are the stressed forms of the reflexive pronouns?

    When accompanied by a preposition — such as a(to), para(to), em(in), de(from, of), and por(for) — you must use the stressed form of the reflexive pronoun instead:

    Stressed Reflexive Pronouns
    Translation(s)
    Subject Pronoun(s)
    mim

    (to / in) myself

    eu(I)
    ti

    (to / in) yourself

    tu(you)
    nós

    (to / in) ourselves

    nós(we)
    vós

    (to / in) yourselves

    vós(you)
    si

    (to / in) yourself

    você(you sg.)

    (to / in) himself, itself

    ele(he, it)

    (to / in) herself, itself

    ela(she, it)

    (to / in) yourselves

    vocês(you pl.)

    (to / in) themselves

    eles, elas(they)

    For example:

    • Eu olhei para mim no espelho do carro.

      I looked at myself in the car mirror.

    • Pedro confia em si.

      Pedro believes in himself.

    • Só você pode fazer algo por si.

      You are the only one who can do something for yourself.

    Tip

    Reflexive pronouns that follow prepositions should not be placed before the verb. As you can notice in the examples given, the reflexive pronoun is always placed after the preposition.

    Important

    The word mesmo(s) / mesma(s)(self) can accompany the stressed forms of reflexive pronouns to emphasize the idea of reflexivity, as in:

    • Eu olhei para mim mesma no espelho.

    • Pedro confia em si mesmo.

    Notice in these examples that mesmo must agree in gender and number with the person or thing it refers to, even if the reflexive pronoun doesn’t reflect that gender.

    The contraction of reflexives with the preposition ‘com’

    In Brazilian Portuguese, when the preposition com(with) is used before a stressed reflexive pronouns, the two form a contraction:

    • com + mim → comigo

    • com + ti → contigo

    • com + si → consigo

    • com + nós → conosco

    • com + vós → convosco

    For example:

    Trouxemos a família conosco.

    We brought the family with us.

    What are reflexive verbs in Brazilian Portuguese?

    In Brazilian Portuguese, reflexive verbs are verbs that must be accompanied by a reflexive pronoun. Some reflexive verbs in Brazilian Portuguese, such as apresentar-se(to introduce oneself) or olhar-se(to look at oneself), are also often accompanied by reflexive pronouns in English.

    Eu apresentei-me para os meus colegas.
    Eu me apresentei para os meus colegas.

    I introduced myself to my colleagues.

    However, there are also many reflexive verbs in Brazilian Portuguese that do not require a reflexive pronoun in English, such as preocupar-se(to worry) and divertir-se(to have fun).

    Pedro diverte-se muito na escola.
    Pedro se diverte muito na escola.

    Pedro has lots of fun at school.

    Tip

    In the infinitive form, reflexive verbs in Brazilian Portuguese are always accompanied by the reflexive pronoun se, as in:

    • vestir-se(to dress oneself)

    • pentear-se(to brush oneself)

    • arrumar-se(to get ready)

    Just like in English, there are also some verbs in Brazilian Portuguese that can be either reflexive (when directed at the self) or non-reflexive (when directed at someone/something else). For example: arrumar(-se)(to get ready) or pentear(-se)(to comb):

    • Eu me penteio.

      I comb myself (i.e. my own hair).

    • Eu penteio o cabelo da minha filha.

      I comb my daughter’s hair.

    Take a look at some more reflexive verbs in Brazilian Portuguese!

    What are reciprocal pronouns in Brazilian Portuguese?

    Reciprocal pronouns are used when two or more actors do something to each other. The reciprocal pronouns in Brazilian Portuguese are:

    • nos → “each other” (me and someone else)

    • vos → “each other” (you and someone else)

    • se → “each other” (someone and someone else)

    Notice that these are the same as the reflexive pronouns nos, vos, and se. They also follow the same grammatical rules, even though they have a slightly different meaning:

    reciprocal pronoun

    Carla e eu falamo-nos ao telefone.
    Carla e eu nos falamos ao telefone.

    Carla and I spoke with each other on the phone.

    The fact that the reciprocal and reflexive uses of nos, vos, and se are identical may cause ambiguity. For instance, see the two options for translating the following sentence:

    Paulo e Roberto convenceram-se.

    Paulo and Roberto convinced themselves.
    Paulo and Roberto convinced each other.

    To avoid uncertainty, you can add the following Brazilian Portuguese expressions after nos, vos, and se, depending on your meaning.

    • reflexive + a + reflexive pronoun + mesmos/as

      reflexive pronoun

      Paulo e Roberto convenceram-se a si mesmos.

      Paulo and Roberto convinced themselves.

    • reciprocal + um ao outro / uns aos outros / entre si (one another)

      reciprocal pronoun

      Paulo e Roberto convenceram-se um ao outro.

      Paulo and Roberto convinced each other.

    • reciprocal + reciprocamente(reciprocally) / mutuamente(mutually)

      reciprocal pronoun

      Paulo e Roberto convenceram-se reciprocamente.

      Paulo and Roberto reciprocally convinced each other.

    In summary

    In this post, we’ve reviewed the reflexive pronouns in Brazilian Portuguese.

    • Reflexive pronouns

      • me(myself)

      • te(yourself)

      • nos(ourselves)

      • vos(yourselves)

      • se(yourself, himself, herself, itself, yourselves, themselves)

    • Stressed reflexive pronouns (after prepositions)

      • mim(myself)

      • ti(yourself)

      • nós(ourselves)

      • vós(yourselves)

      • si(yourself, himself, herself, itself, yourselves, themselves)

    As we learned, some verbs in Brazilian Portuguese are always reflexive, while others can have both a reflexive and non-reflexive form.

    Feeling confident? Now it is time to practice using reflexive pronouns in Brazilian Portuguese with these activities.

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