In Italian, we use the expression mi piace to say “I like,” but the expression literally means “(something) is pleasing to me!” The verbNo definition set for verbLorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit, sed do eiusmod tempor incididunt ut labore et dolore magna aliqua. Ut enim ad minim veniam, quis nostrud exercitation ullamco laboris nisi ut aliquip ex ea commodo consequat. Duis aute irure dolor in reprehenderit in voluptate velit esse cillum dolore eu fugiat nulla pariatur. Excepteur sint occaecat cupidatat non proident, sunt in culpa qui officia deserunt mollit anim id est laborum. piacere is very common in Italian and is part of the best conversation starter on earth: Cosa ti piace fare nel tempo libero?(What do you like to do in your free time?), but it can be a little bit tricky for language learners to use.
In this post, we’ll go over everything you need to know about using piacere(to be pleasing to) and its “sister” verbs such as bastare/mi basta(It is enough (for me)), and servire/mi serve(I need). I like to think of these as “dancing” verbs, because the subjects and objects “dance” around the verb to create a different word order from English. Intrigued? Let’s go and take a look!
How is ‘piacere’ different from “to like” in English?
Though piacere is usually translated into English as “to like,” you may notice that it is grammatically different. This is because the closest literal translation for piacere is actually “to be pleasing.” What does this mean?
In English, the basic order of the words in a sentence with the verb “to like” is:
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But if we use the expression “to be pleasing” instead of “to like,” we need to use a different grammatical structure. Rephrase your sentence and you will end up with:
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Notice that, in the second sentence, even though “I” am the one doing the liking, I’m not the subject of the sentence! Instead the thing that I like is the subject.
This second sentence structure, with “to be pleasing” is more like the grammar you’re using when you use piacere in Italian!
But even though the grammar of piacere matches “to be pleasing,” the word order in Italian Is a little different! In Italian, an indirect objectNo definition set for indirect objectLorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit, sed do eiusmod tempor incididunt ut labore et dolore magna aliqua. Ut enim ad minim veniam, quis nostrud exercitation ullamco laboris nisi ut aliquip ex ea commodo consequat. Duis aute irure dolor in reprehenderit in voluptate velit esse cillum dolore eu fugiat nulla pariatur. Excepteur sint occaecat cupidatat non proident, sunt in culpa qui officia deserunt mollit anim id est laborum. will always come before the verb, and the subject will follow!
indirect object
who is pleased?
That’s why I call these “dancing” verbs! Because the indirect object and the subject “dance” around to the opposite sides of the verb!
How to use subjects and indirect objects with the verb ‘piacere’?
Whenever you use the verb piacere in Italian, you’ll need to mention two things: an indirect object, which is the person who does the liking (or the person who is pleased) and the subject, which is whatever that person likes (or the thing that pleases them). Here’s how to use and position these in a sentence:
The subject of piacere is the thing that you like. Remember, that the subject comes after piacere, not before!
Because the subject is something that someone likes, the subject will almost always use piacere in its third-person (lui/lei/loro) forms. Here are the rules to follow:
Use piace to like a singularNo definition set for singularLorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit, sed do eiusmod tempor incididunt ut labore et dolore magna aliqua. Ut enim ad minim veniam, quis nostrud exercitation ullamco laboris nisi ut aliquip ex ea commodo consequat. Duis aute irure dolor in reprehenderit in voluptate velit esse cillum dolore eu fugiat nulla pariatur. Excepteur sint occaecat cupidatat non proident, sunt in culpa qui officia deserunt mollit anim id est laborum. nounNo definition set for nounLorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit, sed do eiusmod tempor incididunt ut labore et dolore magna aliqua. Ut enim ad minim veniam, quis nostrud exercitation ullamco laboris nisi ut aliquip ex ea commodo consequat. Duis aute irure dolor in reprehenderit in voluptate velit esse cillum dolore eu fugiat nulla pariatur. Excepteur sint occaecat cupidatat non proident, sunt in culpa qui officia deserunt mollit anim id est laborum. or an action:
Use piacciono to like a pluralNo definition set for pluralLorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit, sed do eiusmod tempor incididunt ut labore et dolore magna aliqua. Ut enim ad minim veniam, quis nostrud exercitation ullamco laboris nisi ut aliquip ex ea commodo consequat. Duis aute irure dolor in reprehenderit in voluptate velit esse cillum dolore eu fugiat nulla pariatur. Excepteur sint occaecat cupidatat non proident, sunt in culpa qui officia deserunt mollit anim id est laborum. noun or a list of things:
plural noun
Ci piacciono le tagliatelle.
list
Ci piacciono il caffè e il gelato.
We like coffee and ice cream.
Use definite articlesNo definition set for definite articlesLorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit, sed do eiusmod tempor incididunt ut labore et dolore magna aliqua. Ut enim ad minim veniam, quis nostrud exercitation ullamco laboris nisi ut aliquip ex ea commodo consequat. Duis aute irure dolor in reprehenderit in voluptate velit esse cillum dolore eu fugiat nulla pariatur. Excepteur sint occaecat cupidatat non proident, sunt in culpa qui officia deserunt mollit anim id est laborum. (il, lo, l’, gli, i, le(the)) when you talk about things you like or don’t like, as in:
You can use the 1st personNo definition set for 1st personLorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit, sed do eiusmod tempor incididunt ut labore et dolore magna aliqua. Ut enim ad minim veniam, quis nostrud exercitation ullamco laboris nisi ut aliquip ex ea commodo consequat. Duis aute irure dolor in reprehenderit in voluptate velit esse cillum dolore eu fugiat nulla pariatur. Excepteur sint occaecat cupidatat non proident, sunt in culpa qui officia deserunt mollit anim id est laborum. and 2nd personNo definition set for 2nd personLorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit, sed do eiusmod tempor incididunt ut labore et dolore magna aliqua. Ut enim ad minim veniam, quis nostrud exercitation ullamco laboris nisi ut aliquip ex ea commodo consequat. Duis aute irure dolor in reprehenderit in voluptate velit esse cillum dolore eu fugiat nulla pariatur. Excepteur sint occaecat cupidatat non proident, sunt in culpa qui officia deserunt mollit anim id est laborum. forms of piacere, if the thing you like is “me” “us” or “you,” like this:
I like you!
lit. You are pleasing to me
But be careful! This expression implies you find someone attractive. So if you don’t want to be misunderstood 😉, instead say:
Piacere always has an indirect object, which is the person who is pleased or the person who does the liking. With piacere the indirect object usually comes before the verb.
There are two ways to give an indirect object in Italian: with an (unstressed) indirect object pronounNo definition set for indirect object pronounLorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit, sed do eiusmod tempor incididunt ut labore et dolore magna aliqua. Ut enim ad minim veniam, quis nostrud exercitation ullamco laboris nisi ut aliquip ex ea commodo consequat. Duis aute irure dolor in reprehenderit in voluptate velit esse cillum dolore eu fugiat nulla pariatur. Excepteur sint occaecat cupidatat non proident, sunt in culpa qui officia deserunt mollit anim id est laborum., or with a(to) + a stressed pronounNo definition set for stressed pronounLorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit, sed do eiusmod tempor incididunt ut labore et dolore magna aliqua. Ut enim ad minim veniam, quis nostrud exercitation ullamco laboris nisi ut aliquip ex ea commodo consequat. Duis aute irure dolor in reprehenderit in voluptate velit esse cillum dolore eu fugiat nulla pariatur. Excepteur sint occaecat cupidatat non proident, sunt in culpa qui officia deserunt mollit anim id est laborum. / nounNo definition set for nounLorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit, sed do eiusmod tempor incididunt ut labore et dolore magna aliqua. Ut enim ad minim veniam, quis nostrud exercitation ullamco laboris nisi ut aliquip ex ea commodo consequat. Duis aute irure dolor in reprehenderit in voluptate velit esse cillum dolore eu fugiat nulla pariatur. Excepteur sint occaecat cupidatat non proident, sunt in culpa qui officia deserunt mollit anim id est laborum.:
When a comes before a definite articleNo definition set for definite articleLorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit, sed do eiusmod tempor incididunt ut labore et dolore magna aliqua. Ut enim ad minim veniam, quis nostrud exercitation ullamco laboris nisi ut aliquip ex ea commodo consequat. Duis aute irure dolor in reprehenderit in voluptate velit esse cillum dolore eu fugiat nulla pariatur. Excepteur sint occaecat cupidatat non proident, sunt in culpa qui officia deserunt mollit anim id est laborum. (il, lo, la, i, ...), you’ll need to use an “articulated preposition,” which combines a and the definite article:
You can hear A me mi piace cantare(I like singing), but you know that mi = a me, so why repeat the pronoun?
The Italian literary authority Accademia della Crusca considers “a me mi piace” acceptable in certain spoken contexts, but never acceptable in writing!
Examples of ‘piacere’ in conversations
Here are some examples of conversations with piacere. See if you can recognize the rules we saw above:
Example 1:
Sì, mi piace! / No, non mi piace!
Yes, I like it! / No, I don’t like it.
→ Notice that you don’t need to add a subject pronoun! Using the singular piace is enough!
Example 2:
Vi piacciono le tagliatelle?
Do you all like tagliatelle?
Sì, ci piacciono! / No, non ci piacciono!
Yes, we like them! / No, we don’t like them.
Example 3:
What do you like (to do)?
Ci piace leggere! / Non ci piace leggere.
We like reading. / We don’t like reading.
You can see in these examples that to say that you don’t like something, you can put the word non before the indirect object pronoun.
But if there is an indirect object with a, the word non will come before the verb instead.
No, Gianni doesn’t like it.
How to use ‘piacere’ in other verb tenses?
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This verb takes essere(to be) when it’s used in a compound tenseNo definition set for compound tenseLorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit, sed do eiusmod tempor incididunt ut labore et dolore magna aliqua. Ut enim ad minim veniam, quis nostrud exercitation ullamco laboris nisi ut aliquip ex ea commodo consequat. Duis aute irure dolor in reprehenderit in voluptate velit esse cillum dolore eu fugiat nulla pariatur. Excepteur sint occaecat cupidatat non proident, sunt in culpa qui officia deserunt mollit anim id est laborum.. Therefore, the verb essere and the past participleNo definition set for past participleLorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit, sed do eiusmod tempor incididunt ut labore et dolore magna aliqua. Ut enim ad minim veniam, quis nostrud exercitation ullamco laboris nisi ut aliquip ex ea commodo consequat. Duis aute irure dolor in reprehenderit in voluptate velit esse cillum dolore eu fugiat nulla pariatur. Excepteur sint occaecat cupidatat non proident, sunt in culpa qui officia deserunt mollit anim id est laborum. agree with the thing that is liked!
Vi erano piaciute le isole Eolie.
You had liked the Aeolian Islands.
le isole Eolie is feminine and plural
erano is third-person plural
piaciute is in its feminine plural form
il libro is masculine and singular
piaciuto is in its masculine singular form
When piacere is followed by an infinitive, always use piaciuto
Gli sarà piaciuto andare in pullman?
Would he have liked taking the bus?
Verbs similar to ‘piacere’: ‘bastare’ (to be enough), ‘servire’ (to need), and more!
Below, you can find a list of the most common verbs that work exactly like piacere. Notice that in each case, an indirect object comes before the verb, and the subject comes after the verb!
For me, one egg is enough.
Mi bastano dieci minuti per finire.
Ten minutes are enough for me to be finished.
Mi serve il vostro aiuto.
I need your help.
lit. Your help is necessary to me.
Lia needs money.
lit. Some money is necessary for Lia.
Servire has some other meanings that follow more familiar grammar:
It can be used in a subject + verb + direct object sentence to mean “to serve”
La cameriera serve la carne.
The waitress is serving the meat.
It can be used with only a subject to mean “is used (for)”:
L’olio serve per condire l’insalata.
Oil is used to dress salads.
to be lacking; to not have
I am short of breath.
lit. Breath is lacking for me.
We lack words.
lit. Words are lacking to us.
Mancare can also mean to “miss something/someone” as in:
I miss you.
lit. You’re lacking to me.
Though these three are the most common, there are more, including:
interessare(to be interested in)
occorrere(to need, to be necessary)
Summing Up
If you love to speak with your Italian friends about what you like or do NOT like, just put on your “dancing” shoes and “spin” the subject/object of the phrase and if you say...
Ti piace il tiramisù, think about it as, “The tiramisu is pleasing to you,” or if you think that Vi basta un caffè, spin it into, “For you a coffee is enough!”
Let’s summarize our “dancing” verbs:
piace / serve / basta / manca
(singular verb)
singular noun / infinitive
piacciono / servono / bastano / mancano
(plural verb)
Mi piacciono gli italiani.
And now… ci serve un po’ di pratica(we need some practice)! Click the link to access our activities on mi piace and similar expressions!
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